Book Club Experience
For my book club experience,
I found a nearby library system that hosts a book club called Books and Beans
in coffee shops throughout Johnson County, Indiana. I had honestly never
attended a book club before and have only observed bits and pieces of the one
we host at the library I work at, so I wasn’t entirely sure what to expect. The
meeting was on a Monday morning which I found interesting because so many
others that I’ve seen are in the evening or on weekends, but the timing fit
nicely with the coffee theme. It did perhaps make it harder for some people to
attend, but that’s always going to be the case with a daytime program or event.
The experience
didn’t start out amazing, but that was my fault when I went to the wrong coffee
shop even though I had the proper information in my emails. After I solved that
hiccup and actually got to the right place, it went better! I got a coffee and
settled in at the table with the rest of the book club attendees. I did
disclose my purpose being there for school and that seemed to worry the
participants at first, but I promised I wasn’t there to judge or critique them!
The group was small, with three attendees, two librarians, and me but it
sounded like more members come and go throughout the year as they’re able. The
February meeting was the first one of the year, so that may have had something
to do with the low attendance. There were no men, which didn’t surprise me.
The book we had
read for the meeting was The Dictionary of Lost Words by Pip Williams.
The other attendees had copies from the Johnson County Library. In the interest
of full disclosure, I hadn’t completely finished the book prior to the meeting
but had tried to skim through everything the night before. I didn’t care for it
too much, and eventually came to found out the other attendees and librarians
hadn’t loved it either! It was interesting to see the discussion and lack of
passion when we all didn’t find the book very exciting. I imagine the
discussions and energy are very different when everyone enjoyed the book.
The two librarians
were the leaders of the book discussion, with a list of questions they read. After
reading the questions, they let the attendees respond first before also
offering their own opinions and takeaways about the book. The questions were
all pretty broad and interpretive, asking us to think about what certain parts
meant or what characters motivations were. Some of them were honestly a bit
difficult to think of a good answer for! Unfortunately, because most of us didn’t
love the book, we didn’t remember a lot of small details, so the discussions
weren’t super involved. Despite this, I would say that all attendees spoke
about equally as did both librarians. Everyone seemed like they were regulars
to the book club meetings and knew each other fairly well already and were
polite about each other’s opinions. Everyone was also kind and respectful to me
when I gave my opinions and interpretations about the book too, which felt
welcoming as an outsider to the group.
Since the book
club takes place at coffee shops, the atmosphere is very casual and relaxed.
The café we were at was bustling with activity while we were there. I
appreciated how it felt more informal than book clubs I’ve seen actually in
libraries, including the one that happens monthly at my library. If I were to
attend a book club regularly, I would definitely be more inclined to choose an
off-sight one like this in the future. There were no drinks or snacks
officially provided by the book club, but the coffee shops all have plenty of
options for purchase. Drinking a hot coffee on a cold Monday morning was a nice
addition to the book discussion.
The meeting went a
few minutes longer than an hour as the chatter went off on a few tangents, but the
time passed quickly. At the end, the librarians passed out the schedule for the
year’s meetings including the locations as well as the chosen books. It sounded
like the attendees had some say in the selections as well. The librarians also
passed out the books for next month at the end of the meeting. I took the paper
with the schedule on it to see the future books they would discuss. Most titles
seemed in the realm of literary fiction or historical fiction, though there
were a couple of biographies as well including next month’s Finding Me
by Viola Davis.
Overall, the experience was an enjoyable one except for the stress of going to the wrong location at first. The discussion was fun and interesting, and everyone was welcoming. I loved the fact that they meet at coffee shops because that makes book clubs feel more accessible and less awkward in my opinion. However, I don’t think I’ll be returning for future meetings but that’s just because 9am on Mondays isn’t something I can do regularly!
Hi Laurie,
ReplyDeleteI totally agree with you that having a book club meeting in a café setting adds to the atmosphere of accessibility. I haven’t been too involved in books clubs and for this exercise, I attended one that I am not a regular member of. Even though I knew several of the people there and they were all very welcoming, I still felt a bit self-conscious at first. The meeting I attended met up in a coffee house as well and I felt it definitely made the experience less intimidating because it was such a causal, comfortable atmosphere to begin with and easy to settle into.
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DeleteHi Jacob,
DeleteI definitely agree with the feeling of being self-conscious at these events, especially as the newcomer. The coffee shop atmosphere definitely helped, as did having a drink to fidget with! If there was a lull in conversation it felt more natural and less awkward because we could just take drinks of our coffees.
Laurie,
ReplyDeleteI also tried to read that book last year and ended up not finishing it. Interesting that no one really enjoyed it. Too bad that there were no men there, it's good to get different perspectives on a book. I like that it was held at a cafe too where everyone can choose their own drinks and snacks. Do you wish that some of the questions discussed had been a bit simpler?
Hi Kelsey,
DeleteIt's interesting to hear you didn't love it either when it's been a fairly popular book. I wonder who does like it? Men's perspectives would definitely be interesting since it was such a female-centered novel, I'd be curious there too. It's a shame that men don't tend to attend book clubs as frequently.
And I do kind of wish a few questions were simpler, but that may just be due to not connecting strongly with the book. I do think a few verged too closely to "high school English exam" questions for my taste, but I've also never been one to want to think super critically about what I'm reading.
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DeleteHi Laurie, this sounds like a really cool book club, especially since it meets in different coffee shops! I've been trying to find one like that in the Indy area I can join! That does make for an interesting dynamic to navigate when no one really enjoyed the book. I think as a mediator I would try to prompt discussion on where we felt the book went wrong.
ReplyDeleteLaurie,
ReplyDeleteI was also really concerned that any book club I found would freak out that I was doing this for a class! It made me feel like I'd be dropping into someone's super established D&D group. Fortunately, the one I found was a newer group so people weren't so set into their groove yet and I knew two of the people there. Your example is one of the more unique I've read so far because no one really liked the book. I feel like that would make for a weird one-off experience because it's hard to know what it would be like under better circumstances.
Great write up! So pleased that someone went to a book discussion in my library system! Sometimes the best discussions are the ones where no one liked the book. It's even better when everyone HATES the book because then everyone really wants to talk about it. Great write up! Full points!
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